With all the recent end-of-year focus on releasing the past, it’s easy to misunderstand the fundamental nature of transformation.

Yes, the arc of transformation includes dissolution.

But its essence is wholeness; a gathering-together of all those aspects of our Selves that have been forgotten, denied, suppressed, pushed out of the circle of belonging.

Love transforms by bringing home every aspect of you — the selves you’ve been, the selves you are, and the miraculous selves who are the wings of your becoming.