Welcome to the seventh of an eight part series with Koren Motekaitis of How She Really Does It.
Change is as fundamental on this planet as gravity, it’s not optional. Hiro and Koren discuss the idea of change in sequence, how situations impact and change our actions and the myth of the “Promise Land” of personal transformation.
3:00 the cultural belief about change as sequential
8:00 Transformation in the world as a reciprocal flow
13:03 the situation is changed by your actions, you are changed by the situation
14:20 an example of change not being systematic
19:45 if you invest in a fixed self, you misunderstand change
23:06 It’s human to move toward love
31:39 the “Promise Land” myth of personal transformation
38:24 What you need from your environment to thrive
41:20 Being in an honorable and compassionate relationship with change
43:05 A time in Hiro’s life when change was limited